MY MOTTO

My favorite motto in life and quote is "no pain no gain." This motto means that if you don't try, you can't get anything. For example, if you are playing in a football game, and you can either pass it or run it, and its the game point, and you know that you probably aren't going to make it, then if you don't try you loose already but if you do try, you have a more higher percent of making it then if you didn't try at all.

well the reason why I like this is because every human in this world went through a lot pain and from that pain we have learn a lot of thing so we all pursue to strive for good, most of the successful people in this world have to go to a lot of pain and they made it to the top, and there are more pain that is coming but I believe from that bain there is gain.

There is also another example, let's say you are getting sucked into the economic meltdown on the news everyday and it is becoming a real pain in the ass. The pain starts with an external trigger such as "bad economic news." You now have some choices.
1) Turn off the TV or news
2) Pretend it's not happening. Or,
3) turn toward the external trigger "bad economic news" and then, this is the crucial next step, turn toward what it is bringing up in you,  such as your feelings of fear or anger.

But why do this? Because if you choose not to feel the pain that you feel in relationship to most things in your life, you are cutting off a huge opportunity to "gain." When you turn away, the only person that loses is you.
So, my strong suggestion is to man up and relate to your pain. Turn toward it, whatever it is. The external trigger of your pain could be money, a sour relationship, death of a loved one, a co-worker, your career, whatever. Next, feel the pain associated with the external trigger and see what happens.
Trust me, if you stay with it long enough, it will turn in to a big gain, but you have to turn toward the fire and stand in it. Another sign of a revolutionary man in the making-turning toward what is painful in life, rather than away from it.
Gain awaits. All you have to do, is relate to and turn toward your pain.